A parent's perspective: Supporting passion and purpose in the university journey

Written by Joanna Lustanski

We spoke with a proud parent whose daughter, Deepika, is currently in her third year of studying Neuroscience with Psychology at York University. The story offers valuable insights for other families navigating the university selection process.

What were the most important factors you and your daughter considered when choosing a university?

“When Deepika began exploring her options, the program itself was the top priority,” her mother shared. “York’s Neuroscience program stood out as a perfect match for her academic interests and long-term goals.” She added that Deepika attended program-specific information sessions, which helped solidify her decision. 

Beyond academics, the family looked closely at financial considerations, including tuition costs and scholarship opportunities. “We wanted to ensure that her education was both high-quality and financially sustainable.” Other practical aspects—like campus safety, residence availability and proximity to home—also factored into their decision.

How did Deepika narrow down her list of schools?

“She focused on schools that offered small class sizes and strong scholarship options,” her parent explained. “The ability to have close interaction with faculty was especially important to Deepika.”

York’s Neuroscience with Psychology program offers a more intimate class environment in the upper years, fostering a deeper and more focused learning experience.

Did you visit campuses together before making a decision?

“Unfortunately, due to COVID restrictions, we only visited one campus together,” Deepika’s mother recalled. However, being previously familiar with York’s Keele Campus helped ease their concerns. “The spacious layout and the sense of a diverse, vibrant community made a strong impression, even without a formal tour.”

How did you balance your daughter’s preferences with your own concerns?

“Thankfully, Deepika’s passion aligned well with our expectations,” the parent said. While she was confident in her daughter’s academic direction, her main concern was how Deepika would adjust to university life.

"My husband and I focused on emotional and practical support to help our child transition smoothly into this new phase of independence and responsibility.”

Advice to other parents and supporters

One piece of advice stood out clearly: “Take the time to understand your child’s strengths and interests. Encourage them to pursue what they’re genuinely passionate about—not just what seems practical or expected.”

This thoughtful approach has paid off. Deepika is thriving in her program because she genuinely loves what she’s studying. Her story is a great reminder that when students feel supported in doing what they care about, they are more likely to find both academic success and personal fulfillment.